Sunday, July 15, 2012

AboutTheIdolConfession: Lee Donghae

Yes, my number one biased. Mr Aiden Lee Donghae.
Good looking.
Cute.
Sexy.
Hot.
A man full of charms.
Isn't he wonderful?
I know most of us fall for looks, but for me, I liked him for a reason.
He was the first member I knew from Super Junior. I don't know, he attracted me a lot. So like every other fangirl's instinct, I stalked this beloved man. The story came. The incident of his father. I cried at all the videos, whenever they interviewed him, whenever he started talking about his father, I cried. I did. It really aches my heart to see a young man to lose his old man. Just imagine if you couldn't see your beloved one just because of the cancer cells that brings them to death and then they fell deep into sleep, and they never ever woke up. I guess that was how pain it was.
I read articles, when reporters took photos of him at his father's funeral, he even smiled for them. Picture that. I mean, we can't even smile because the fact is the one you loved is gone. But for Donghae? He smiled for the reporters.
You get it, right?
So yeah.
What makes me angry is when they keep interviewing him about his father and keep bringing him to tears during their 'Sorry Sorry' days. It's so horrible. Watch it for yourself.
 

The members are able to tell their parents about it through the phone. During that time...
Doesn't that want to make you cry?
It hurts.
A lot.
He needed a father but he had to face it.
Soon, bit by bit, he let it go.
I am sure he still misses his father. I know.
But he is a strong man, even today. He is filial to his mother, a good dongsaeng to his brother and a great friend. That is what I liked about him. 
Okay.
I know. 
There was an incident about him swearing at China fans long time ago.
I will just say on whatever I know and whatever I read.

Super junior arrived at China.
Thousands of fans who love them so much gathered there.
Caused human traffic and crazy, crazy, crazy squeeziness. 
Donghae and his members tried going through but fans keep pushing
He was angry-pissed-off-not-in-good-mood-or-what-so-ever
Then he swore, "Oh shit, move over, fxckers!" 
Then it became a big topic
China fans hurt and then all the rest can be detail if you go to google.

So yeah. I know, there is always a dark side of everyone, no one is perfect unless you are a barbie doll. Then, let me ask you a few questions that came to my mind.

"If the fans really love them that much, why did they push?"
"Where was the respect that Korean ELFs have? I mean China fans are ELFs too, right?"
"We all know how tiring it is after a flight, yes no? Then why are the fans being like this?"
"If I was the one who swore in China, would it be this big?"

Think, man, think. Who isn't frustrated if you are tired?
Come on, use some sense. If the korean fans had basic respect, I don't see why the fans of other countries don't have it. If we love someone, we would respect them, right? Same thing goes for them, it is just that they don't know all of us. 
And just because he is an idol, he can't swear? What logic?
When we are in supermarkets, idols use baskets too. 
We are the same, humans with emotions. Unless you are saying that they are all heartless and cold.

Okay, you all may think I am defending him. If this happened to Jessica, Krystal, Hyuna, someone from other bands, I would do the same thing. Trust me.

So I saying... Yea. Donghae can swear, can we understand that? Good.
Moving on, other than the swearing incident, he is fine. Filial, respectful, grateful, kind, helpful, a man with a big heart. He knows what to cherish. Doesn't that make him a great person already? Right?
That is what made me like him.
Then.
Then.
Then the looks came.
That is when the fangirling mode gets turned on.




















BRB DYING
Is it me or is it getting hotter in here? I mean, isn't he hot? Wow. Seriously, I may have Sehun, Luhan. Hyukkie, Ming, Xander, Kevin, AJ, Wooyoung in my baised list but none of them, not even my first favourite idol, Kim Jaejoong, can win him in my heart. No one has brought him down. I am serious. He is my number one, and mine 
Fans are hating me for saying that. So sorry. You all can have him. Take him. I will just admire him from here. I will never stop fangirling for him.

So yeah, let's bring an end to this sexy post.

Okthxbye